For Chaplains

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To make the fullness of Christ known amid death and grief.

Below are resources to help you serve families toward that end.

A Family Guide and Professional Development

Families are better served when they receive guidance before approaching funeral directors:

Biblical Comfort

Specific Pastoral Issues

Funeral Cost Support - for families in need

A Family Guide about Funerals, Cremations and Burials

When families face loss, they're vulnerable — emotionally and through inexperience. Many funeral directors are caring, but commercial pressures don't always serve families well.

This guide takes a different approach. It equips families with honest information before they encounter sales pressure, helping them understand their options and protect their budget when they're most vulnerable.

It draws on family heritage in funeral service, international insight, and personal loss.

👉 Download Email Version (PDF)

👉 Download Printable Version (PDF)

Professional Development: advising families before they contact a funeral director

Most families receive their first funeral advice from someone with a commercial interest. We train chaplains to offer sound, independent guidance before families enter that sales environment—equipping you to protect and serve them in one of life's most vulnerable moments.

👉 Learn more about our training programme

Comfort from the Psalms

The Psalms have long brought comfort to the grieving, yet many Christians don't draw deeply from their wisdom. We've selected passages from 11 Psalms that may help in your ministry, each with a link to an article, sermon, or song.

👉 Explore comfort from the Psalms

GriefShare

A GriefShare support group is a safe, welcoming place where people understand the difficult emotions of grief. Through this 13-week group, families will discover what to expect in the days ahead and what's "normal" in grief. Since there are no neat, orderly stages of grief, they'll learn helpful ways of coping with grief, in all its unpredictability — and gain solid support each step of the way.

GriefShare is a video-led course featuring Nancy Guthrie and her husband, with contributions from Joni Eareckson Tada and Paul David Tripp. Sessions are facilitated by churches, and sometimes in retirement villages and aged care facilities. GriefShare has helped over 1 million people in more than 25 years.

👉 Read an article about it

👉 Find out more or start a group where you are chaplain or in your church

Christian books on grief and hope

Marc has either found these books personally helpful or they are highly recommended:

The Doors of the Ocean by John O'Callaghan
"The gentle pace of the poetry and the elegant, peaceful photographs invite you to slow down and rest."

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Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament by Mark Vroegop
"Drawing on examples from the Bible and his own story of loss, Pastor Vroegop walks through steps of lament (Turn, Complain, Ask, and Trust)."

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Suffering Well by Paul Grimmond

"As I began to write this book, I thought I knew pretty much what I was going to say. But the more I read the Bible, trying to find the right passages to make the points I thought I needed to make, the more uneasy I felt."

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Hope Beyond Cure by David McDonald

"Two devastating words left me feeling hopeless and lost. Tumour and incurable."

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The Book of Common Courage by K.J. Ramsey
Based on Psalm 23, it is "a collection of prayers, poems, and blessings to help you find a flicker of strength in the small and hard moments of life."

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Suicide Prevention and Bereavement

Suicide Prevention for Seniors Program - Anglicare
QIP accredited training for those working with older people, meeting Suicide Prevention Australia standards. CPD points available.
👉 Learn more

Additional resources
For links to suicide prevention and bereavement support organizations:
👉 Suicide Prevention and Bereavement resources


If someone is in crisis:

Immediate danger: Call Triple Zero (000) for an ambulance

24/7 confidential counselling:
- Lifeline: 13 11 14 or chat online at lifeline.org.au
- Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 or suicidecallbackservice.org.au

No problem is too big or small.

House of Refuge

House of Refuge is a new movement, associated with Love Sydney. It empowers churches to support those facing unplanned or crisis pregnancy, guide those hurting from previous abortions toward healing, and protect the unborn in their community.

A House of Refuge isn't a building — it's a local church where someone can go in crisis, a safe place where the body of Christ ministers to those in need.

👉 Hear an interview about it

👉 Find out more or start a group in your church

Help with funeral costs for families in need

If families have limited means, we may be able to offer Funeral Cost Support.

👉 Find out more

Here is a brochure specifically for families in this situation.

👉 Download Email Version (PDF)

👉 Download Printable Version (PDF)

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